Theories and styles of counseling are important “tools of the trade” for a trained therapist. Therefore, I have given much thought to the development of my own Personal Counseling Philosophy.
Although I appreciate and utilize a variety of counseling techniques taught by many noted psychologists, it is my belief that there is an ultimate Source of Truth without which there would be no reliable guide — for the helper, or the one being helped. As a Christian, I have experienced the reliability of God’s Word and Spirit as the genuine source of wisdom that inspires and guides my counseling interventions.
Counseling is very practical: It involves the whole person. Learning to identify the causes of the problem is a key ingredient in the process of arriving at a satisfactory solution.
The neighbor-next-door “kitchen counselor” may have natural instincts that can be helpful when you need a listening ear or a word of comfort or advice. However, some longstanding problems may need professional intervention in order to gain the benefits of a long-lasting solution. Choosing a counselor with whom you can develop a quality therapeutic relationship is especially important to your counseling satisfaction and success. Having shared beliefs and values contribute to the level of trust and confidence you will have in your therapist.
Actively participating in a helping relationship with a trained therapist can be a first step of an exhilarating journey that leads to emotional healing and personal growth.